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How to handle a counter-offer from your employer
A calm way to weigh a counter-offer: revisit why you were leaving, test what would really change, and respond to both employers professionally.
Go back to your reasons for leaving
Write down the reasons you started looking, in order of importance, before reading the counter-offer closely. A counter-offer is designed to answer the question 'would you stay for more?', which is not always the question that matters to you.
Test the counter-offer against those reasons
| Reason you were leaving | Can a counter-offer fix it? | What to ask |
|---|---|---|
| Pay below the market | Often yes | Is the increase permanent and in writing, and when is the next review? |
| No route to progress | Sometimes | What specific role and timeline is being offered? |
| Workload or team problems | Rarely, unless the structure changes | What will be different in the next three months? |
| Wanting different work or a new sector | No | Does staying move me towards it at all? |
Weigh the new offer fairly
The new employer's offer is real too. Compare both on the same terms: pay and benefits, the work itself, the people, flexibility, security and what each job leads to. A side-by-side list stops the most recent conversation dominating the decision.
Illustrative example
A finance analyst weighing two offers
- Reasons for leaving: no analysis work, only reporting; manager unlikely to change.
- Counter-offer: a pay rise matching the new offer, same role.
- New offer: the same pay, an analysis role and a team that builds forecasting models.
- Decision: the counter-offer fixes pay but not the main reason, so the analyst accepts the new role.
Invented to show the method; your priorities may lead somewhere different.
Responding to both employers
- Ask for the counter-offer in writing before deciding, and give a date when you will reply.
- If you accept the counter-offer, tell the new employer quickly and courteously; they may have other candidates waiting.
- If you decline it, thank your current employer and keep your notice and handover professional.
- Do not use one offer to bargain repeatedly with the other; it damages trust on both sides.
Common questions
Is it a bad idea to accept a counter-offer?
Not always. It can be the right choice when your main reason for leaving was pay and the increase is real and lasting. It is riskier when the underlying reasons will not change.
Can I withdraw my resignation after accepting a counter-offer?
That depends on your employer agreeing. Make sure the withdrawal and the new terms are confirmed in writing.
Put it into practice
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